Over the past six years, I have taught three different grade levels. This has definitely lead to multiple instances of feeling incompetent. I appreciated reading that “sometimes realizing that feelings of competence and incompetence are human and touch everyone’s life path can bring perspective to our own lives.” It is important to reflect on our feelings of incompetence, so that our actions can be changed in the future. I have found that preparedness and self-confidence are keys to building a positive self-efficacy.
In an administrative role, I believe that having mentors and surrounding myself with positive people that I can trust, will lead to fewer feeling of incompetence. Obviously, no one is perfect. It takes a strng person to admit their mistakes, reflect, and learn from negative feelings. It would be much easier to ignore them, but as the leaders we are setting the tone for the staff and our students. We must model that behavior that we expect from them, believe in our abilities, and be willing to constantly grow and change.